Hahaha...How I wish I have the tips....but just found one 'secret recipe'...truly I am..just find 1 minute ago.....
So the 'secret recipe' is...find your own happiness...find your own strength in what ever you do...As long it doesn't harm any human or creature...Being a 'yes' person is always suffocating...feeling bullied all the time..low self-esteem...an angry bird is keeping low deep inside your heart..waiting to be exploded....Eventually we need to speak up..errr sometimes....need to know your limit and boundaries....hahaha yeah I should do that...
Sometimes you will feel that your superior isn't appreciate what you do and under estimate you...So then what you should do...What should we do...Are we going to feel pity to ourselves until the eyes closed forever..or are we going to do something...
Obviously you can't scold him/her back...or make a riot at your office or even hurting others to satisfy our angry bird..hahaha..those will make your life much more horrible and chaos and even make people who cares about getting hurt.
So the solution is...find happiness and find your strength....Try to sit and think for a while...what are the option to face the problem...Try to discuss heart to heart with your superior ( easy for you to say..sigh)...try to learn new language..it could be fun...enter some courses to strengthen your skills...join out door activities...Try to talk with real people ....live..not by using skype...intsgram..facebook...you name it..long list huh...
Spending time with your loves...your wife...husband..children...parents ...sibblings...friends..bff...and etc...
